I arrive at the blog the day after my 49th birthday with a desire to break silence and write something here.
Fools are destroyed by their own complacency. Proverbs 1:32b, NLT
I feel this today. The cost of complacency. My battle against it as an Enneagram 9 is thick. Lately I have been warring inside to show up in the spaces. Any of them. Every time I do show up anywhere, it is work.
The words in my head are fast and furious. Ushering them through the keys to the page is the battle. I lean in and stand firm at the desk in my tiny home office. Eyeing the clock in the bottom corner of the screen, I invite the words to line up.
Each wants to be first. To say its piece. To jump out before being judged and sent to the end of the line. Time is running short. I have only minutes before the next thing. It’s tempting to pivot away to something else.
It is no secret that our country is in a state of collective trauma and chaos. From COVID-19 and the pandemic to the most recently publicized unjust killings and police brutality against the African-American community, this is a persistent state of unrest.
Cry out for insight and ask for understanding. Proverbs 2:3, NLT
This is where I have been. Crying out and asking. Listening.
Therefore they must eat the bitter fruit of their own way, choking on their own schemes. Proverbs 1:31, NLT
I am examining the bitter fruit in my own life. Ways that I have chosen comfort over truth. Safety over honesty. Blindness over sight.
And what do I do with the bitterness? The feeling of choking? How do I try to escape it by justifying instead of naming honestly? How do I rush to feel better at the cost of ignoring the plight of another?
I can still breathe.
I have more questions than answers. Where do I turn outside of myself? Who do I listen to and heed?
I am listening to my brothers and sisters of color. To faithful leaders who are doing the work of teaching and leaning in to reconciliation. I do not have answers which is why I am quiet.
I am listening.
Learn all you can
From those who are wiser
Practice doing what is right, just, and fair.
Fearing the Lord
While listening to counsel
From genuine heart~friends
Will help you grow wise.
~thoughts on Proverbs 1~